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Never done this before, wanting to be careful and take it slow!? - m4w (San Francisco ) 41yr

2008-09-05T02:25:16-07:00

If you have never done this before, want to be real careful and take it slow, then I hope you�ll consider what I have to say and further compare your situation to mine. I have some nice platonic female friends and colleagues, but I could never come onto them in my own social circle, because I�m married. My marriage has lost all forms of intimacy. Maybe you know what that�s like, when that erotic spark, attraction and excitement has left your long-term relationship forever.

Hopefully you understand first hand what this feels like. Maybe you are searching these ads because you are also living without the romantic attention and caring touch that you are supposed to get from your own husband, but aren�t. If that�s what it�s like for you, then you�ve come to the right place, because I have the same dilemma with my wife.

I know you would be taking a risk, need to be very discreet and careful, since you have a lot to lose� because I do too. I don�t want to end my marriage either, but only add that one missing ingredient to make life whole and complete again.

Maybe you aren�t sure about responding, because you don�t know what kind of person I am. But I don�t know what you are like either, which makes two of us. So what we could do is just take our time getting to know each other gradually, see if we could be friends first before we even consider beginning dating.

Once you get to know me, you�ll see for yourself that I�m a trustworthy guy and just looking for a lovely connection that makes both of us happy in the long run. I�m educated, polite, fair, open-minded, easy-going and fun to chat with. I�m in perfect health, certifiably std-free, handsome, clean, trim and sporty. I�m a very giving lover, would love to lick and give as much mind-blowing pleasure as possible. I�m in my early forties but look, dress and act younger.

I will trade my photo with yours after I make sure that you aren�t somebody I already know in real life. If what I wrote about me sounds good to you, then I hope you�ll hit reply and tell me something about yourself� including your age, physical description and location. Thanks and have a wonderful day! :-)

Mutually Beneficial Relationship - m4w (City by the Bay) 41yr

2008-09-05T02:22:06-07:00

Hello,

I am a passionlessly married man in my early 40s who is looking for a woman in the bay area, who also is missing physical intimacy like me and wants a mutually beneficial relationship. I won't define this term, so if you think this just means just an encounter, do not email me! I would really like to find a long term affair.

I am intelligent, nice to talk to, and easily approachable and I would like to find the same things in a woman. I like a woman who has a good character as I do. If you think you have the right characteristics, email me and tell me some more about yourself, and then maybe we'll start a dialogue and move forward. Thank you!

Looking for a discreet, passionate, erotic affair? Hey, me too! - m4w (City of SF) 43yr

2008-09-05T02:16:45-07:00

Yes I am married and plan to stay that way, even though I no longer have a domestic intimate life. But then again I am not willing to just lie down and live without romance or sex for the rest of my life.

With that said, you should also know that I am not looking for just a quick one-time thing but for a friend I can have conversations with, plus possibly more if that is where it leads to. Though I will not jump in bed with anyone but prefer to get to know the person and make sure there is a mutual liking and attraction.

I am a decent looking white male, hwp, non-smoking, no drugs, no games and I enjoy long kisses and foreplay. I would prefer a married woman, race unimportant, in her 30's to early 40's who is content in her relationship, or single and not wanting any entanglements. Your pic would be appreciated. I also have mine to respond with. Thanks for your interest.

i like to be a geisha - m4m (castro / upper market) 40yr

2008-09-05T00:46:21-07:00

robust, fun loving, i like to hold hands, moved from Louisiana to San Jose to Napa, but want to make SF my home, i like to be happy. protect my close ones, lots of fun secrets, adventures

i get so lonely and sad sometimes. - w4m (campbell)

2008-09-04T23:44:30-07:00

i love to smoke weed and speed.. in small portions.. i love to do community stuff.. i love to have good conversation.. will you meet me for a smoke?

surebert

Zen Priest 4 Intimate Contact - m4m (santa rosa) 60yr

2008-09-04T23:24:46-07:00

Strong dom Zen Priest looking for practice partner for meditation, the Tao, body contact, touch, painting, saki ceremony.

Medium HWP.

HIV neg/clean only.

email stats & pic.

Dominant GAM Seeking Submissive GWM Executive - m4m (berkeley) 28yr

2008-09-04T22:40:10-07:00

I�m looking for a loving dom/sub relationship. I'm not looking for the typical dom/sub relationship, but rather a loving relationship where we meet each other's needs. I have a naturally dominant personality and have done well in relationships where my partner is naturally submissive. I enjoy taking control and making the decisions.

You:
An intelligent, well-educated, in shape guy who enjoys being submissive. Someone who has an open-mind and enjoys life. Age is not a big issue for me, but under 40 would be nice.

Me:
GAM, well educated (MBA graduate), intelligent, masculine, in shape, muscular swimmer�s build. Have lots of interests in life and looking forward to exploring more.

Together:
We work together to satisfy each other�s needs.

Email me for more details if interested.

Ever feel like you don't fit in the gay culture? - m4m

2008-09-04T22:17:02-07:00

Ever feel like you don't fit in the gay culture very well? Me too. Gay bars are not really my scene. I'm not into show tunes (although I like most other kinds of music) or much into the theatre. I do, however, enjoy movies, travel and I value long-term relationships (as I believe many of us gay men do although it's difficult to create.)

I tend to be most attracted to Caucasian guys who are masculine and confident, yet emotionally-available like myself. Hairy guys are a big plus. ...probably someone who is between 35 and 51 year old. I'm looking to get to know a guy who is hiv-negative and std-free (including no history of genital herpes or hepatitis). ...someone who values kindness, honesty and respect... oh, yeah... humor too!

6', 175, 44, Caucasian, masculine, muscular, clean-cut and professional describe me. I'm hiv-negative and std-free.

...some of my interests: dining out, movies, music, gym, cuddling on the sofa, weekend getaways, music, hanging with friends, lots of laughter, working in the dirt (i.e., gardening), spirituality, massage and my "work" which I don't usually consider "work" because it's one of my passions.

If you think this might be a "match", please include a description of yourself and include a face photo in your initial email.

If you have time and desire more, if you can think outside the box? - w4m (N. Cal) 46yr

2008-09-04T21:50:23-07:00

In the past few days I have tried this CL ad but it seems I still get responses from the wrong guy! Are you out there? I am seeking a man who is patient, who has time to get away, talk, meet and find something special in and out of the bed. Maybe a guy who is single/divorced and not wanting to get tied down again, to have a gal friend for doing things but not worry about a long term commitment?

To be honest, I am asking allot but I am married and not wanting to hurt or doom my future. Currently separated but under the same roof for a few more months, I have no intention of wanting or ever getting married again. My career has me traveling, my free spirit gives me the time to explore but doing it alone is just not something I like to do all the time.

I am tall, 5'9" and desire a man taller then myself. Voluptuous, curvy and exotic features. If you can take a joke, enjoy writing, movies, long walks, hikes, camping, little notes to say hello, kissing, cuddling and all the things we as humans desire! If your not into a woman that is skinny but full figured and sexy, then maybe we can talk and meet this weekend?

Please forward a note about you, what your expecting, a face pic and let's see what enjoyment we can find together. If you are married then please know I am not wanting to see someone in the dark but in the light of day!

No pic, then no reply.

I sure hope your out there...

Looking for discreet INTIMACY as someone who is married - m4w (San Mateo county) 43yr

Me? I am married and want to stay that way. I'm considerate, confident, educated, caring and passionate. I am looking for a woman I can talk and confide with. Emotional intimacy comes first.

Do you also feel generally happy but perhaps not as loved or fulfilled as you could be? Are you discreet, but able to make room for a meaningful affair?

I am looking for an emotional experience with someone who can be honest, real and authentic. I would think that most people realize at some point that life is simply too short to pretend to be what we are not.

Some might say that finding a relationship on the side like this is not the right answer --- that we should just get out of our marriages--- but then we have our reasons don't we?

Curious? Send me an email...

Any married women free on weekends and evenings? - m4w (on the peninsula) 42yr

2008-09-04T21:31:19-07:00

Greetings�. I am presently married and seeking a secret relationship on the side. For a number of different reasons, I am not willing to leave my situation now but need a bit more. So here I am, seeking a discreet, private fun relationship.

I am looking for someone who may be in a similar situation to mine, who I could imagine becoming friends and eventually lovers with. I am not looking for any hookups or one-night stands, but a more gradual getting-to-know process.

Ideally I would like to find a woman who would be able to meet in the evenings and possibly weekends. If this sounds like something you might be interested in, please feel free to send me an email. I prefer responses that have some thought put into them, rather than just one-liners.

When you write back, please send a picture or a good description of what you are like and interested in. Thanks!

Looking for that someone special for LTR. - m4t 28yr

2008-09-04T21:11:30-07:00

What am I looking for? I am looking for someone fun. Someone who I can talk to and get something back. Someone real. I will be completely honest. I like full time transgender M2F. I had a short relationship with a TG and enjoyed every moment of it. However we were different enough that it couldn't work out. Now I am looking to find that right someone.

I am very open about everything and enjoy most things. Friendly and sometimes outgoing. Asian, five foot eight inches and an average body. I don't do well with these things so email me and I will answer any questions you may have. Please provide a photo and I will reply with same.

Four20 Friday Sunsets and wine - m4w (pacific heights) 30yr

2008-09-04T21:10:21-07:00

Just like it sounds....Friday afternoon I come swoop you up, We go out to the cliffs, chill out get to know each other and then see what happens .....me...6-0 240
im a pretty good cook ....ill cook ya a dinner....???
let see

Tattoos a plus,,,,,

No preppy a$% chics

T2yS

The Right Bi - mw4m (Marin) 38yr

2008-09-04T21:08:15-07:00

Married couple with straight woman and bi man are looking for a bi man to join them for friendship or more. Could be short or long term relationship depending on the desires of all involved.

He is 55, 6', 200 lbs., runner's bod, Mediterranean descent. She is 38, 5'4", a curvaceous BBW, 44 DDs. We are both drug, disease and drama free, discrete, educated, self-employed professionals.

We are looking for a man who is truly bi and comfortable with his sexuality. We prefer someone between the ages of 30 - 55, white, DDD free, and similarly educated. However we will consider others if they meet the rest of our requirements.

Please send a description of yourself with a g-rated picture. No pic, no response. No response for one line inquiries.

ABSOLUTELY NO:
* Married men
* Guys unsure of their sexuality
* Swingers or just looking to get laid by the woman

I need to know - m4m (financial district) 24yr

2008-09-04T21:06:31-07:00

I'm a 24 year old, 5'6, 145lb, Asian in SF, living and learning about myself.

I'd like to see who is out there. Ideally, someone who has the same interests as me which include the gym, traveling and movies as well as someone who is under the age of 35.

Thanks for reading...

Seeking Activity Partners/Ltr minded folks - m4m (Sanfrancisco) 31yr

2008-09-04T20:52:21-07:00

Ive tried this a couple times this summer . with different results over time. Have met some nice down to earth people ,and others more challenging so to speak. Im here in hopes of meeting guys to get out and do thing with such as bike,power walk,hike,someone who may have a great liking for wines,movies indepedent,or mainstream,some of my other interests include photography,cooking/bbqing,yard sailing,hanging out at home as well . I describe myself as easy going with get up and go. Have tried some new thngs this summer being more open minded to new things ,and have enjoyed the great weather ,and travel as well . Im ideally seeking guys to do activities with ,and ,or dating with a mind set of longterm situation. a fun date night sounds appealing for starters walking around talking gettting to know one another get a coffee ,or a drink . just my thoughts now please share yours .

help me BREAK the ice ....New to this - m4t (pacific heights) 29yr

2008-09-04T20:02:12-07:00

Hello there......

<--me 29 m tattoos, go tee, 6-0, been straight my whole life but have always
been sexually curious..... looking to meet up and mingle friday night......see `what happens.
or tell me something fun you think would be a hit .....PIc 4 pic
Please be serious .......
talk soon
Mr curious

Tall, attractive guy seeks woman for passionate nights - m4w (sunnyvale) 39yr

2008-09-04T19:33:48-07:00

I tried this before but got nothing but spam. I'll give it another go...

I'm looking for a casual relationship-- a short-term, long-term, FWB arrangement-- it depends completely on our interest, attraction and compatibility. No strings attached, other than we both be clean, mature and considerate. And safe.

You: dark or red hair. Thin or curvy figure-- both are extremely hot. (I�m much more interested in your attractive features than your dress size.) Smart, funny, with rounded personality.

Me: 39, white, 6' 4", brown hair, light blue eyes, with a few extra pounds. I'm smart, easy on the eyes, with a great sense of humor and wit. I love music, movies, dining of all sorts. Most of all, I like laughing, enjoying the moment, and learning new ways to do both.

I�m in an open but committed relationship. I'm not someone seeking "discretion" or who gets off on sneaking around. I�m honest with my partner and I�ll always be honest with you.

If we hit it off, we can see where this goes, provided we've got that chemistry. Getting to know each other might be a key part of learning if that chemistry is there. ;) At the same time, while CL might be about "hook-ups" for many, I welcome making a new friend any time.

Let me know if you're interested. We can talk first, e-mail, chat, or meet over coffee. Anything goes.

Dating, LTR.... - m4m (fremont / union city / newark) 39yr

2008-09-04T19:18:16-07:00

Hey Guys,
I'm looking for someone to date and hoping to have a long term relationship.I hope there are some out there.I'm about 5-8 155 blk hair brn eyes smooth bod very clean safe discrete ddfree non smoker and i drink ocassionally.I'm very laid back, friendly, compassionate, honest , loyal, easy to get along with and has a great sense of humor. i'm looking for a guy that has the same traits or better..hehehe..I have an average size body not fit but also not out of shape.I try to work out when i have time. I hope i do find someone here and start our future together.About the pictures, I have plenty but i would like to see your pics first. I promise i will send some of mine.When you do reply, i would like to know a little about yourself.
I do look young for my age.A lot of people i meet said that i look 10 years young. so it's for you to see and let me know..Hope to hear from you..

Looking for the right Asian Guy - m4m (twin peaks / diamond hts) 32yr

2008-09-04T19:11:50-07:00

Hi and thank you for reading my ad.

About myself.
I am a 32y.o. healthy, good looking and athletic, white guy. I was born and raised in Europe; I am however a US citizen and I consider San Francisco my home. I am rather comfortable and happy with my life as I have good education, my health and a successful career. In my free time I like to combine the pleasures of the urban life: shopping, movies and dining out with the outdoors and trips to the countryside. I also go to the 24hrs gym at Ocean Ave, to keep in shape. Last few years I had my share of fun and parties and I still enjoy going out on occasion (mostly for my love of dancing, house music and my friends company), but I am at a point in my life where I�d like to share my time with the right person.

Who, I�d like to meet.
A down-to-earth, friendly Asian guy, who would appreciate the company of the loving and caring guy that I believe I am. During the last eight years I have been living in San Francisco, I have been exploring Chinese and Japanese culture, history and values. This experience made me feel close to and rather fond of Chinese and Japanese people. Thus, if you happened to be of Chinese/Japanese origin that would be really great.

If you respond, please have the courtesy to attach a recent and clear face picture of yours.

Wanting happy time girl - m4w 35yr

2008-09-04T18:53:26-07:00

Ah, dating is such a drag, goes nowhere, surprise me. Give me a reason to live, etc., etc., etc. No kooks, prefer rich girls with time and money, large breasted and small waisted, but will settle for a presentable human being who is not hopelessly addicted to alchohol, not a tweaker, and makes me happy, happy, happy!!! No bots or internet addicts need apply.

Dating and then something more... - m4m 43yr

2008-09-04T18:42:18-07:00

Looking for that someone special to start dating and more�.

A little about me:

I am a single gay white male, 43 years old, 5� 7�, 105 lbs, slender in frame, light brown hair with hazel eyes. I am HIV-, disease free and a non-drinker, non-drug user.

I am open, honest and not into playing games and don�t like putting up with BS. I have a strong desire that my next relationship will not be based on either drugs or alcohol or sex. I want to form a bond with that special someone that will last a lifetime. Although I believe a strong attraction needs to exist, getting to know a person is most important for me at this time.

A few of the things I enjoy doing:

Reading (current events, Sunday newspaper, history and biographies)
Watching movies and TV
Hanging out at coffeehouses (and drinking coffee, and lots of it!)
Taking long walks (either on a beach, around town or in the mountains)
Playing video games
Dancing
Long drives and exploring the Bay Area
Spending limited time with my family
Church (Methodist or MCC)
Almost every type of music (no techno or rap)

The person I am looking for would have similar interest but not exactly the same because I would like to meet someone who would enjoy my interest as well as I would enjoy learning a few of theirs. Some other things that I am looking for:

Humorous, but not the class clown
Easy going and laid back
Someone taller than me
Non-drinker (or limited, social drinker) and absolutely no drugs!
Spontaneous

If you have enjoyed what you have read and are interested in meeting me, send me an
e-mail and let�s see where it goes��

Gilrs do u wanna play with me? XXX - m4w (berkeley north / hills) 25yr

2008-09-04T18:15:48-07:00

I am risa, 25...from berkeley...i am looking for a girl and woman between 18-29 who has sexual fantasies :d and looking for a guy please you XXXXX....just a few nights fun then no more contact...email me...

Cybercafe affair... - m4w (fremont / union city / newark) 35yr

2008-09-04T17:56:59-07:00

We can be sitting in the same cybercafe and having cybersex... Things may turn into something more intersting...

Looking for a special person as my FWB... - m4w (milpitas) 38yr

2008-09-04T17:50:14-07:00

I am 38, fun, mature, sane, dominant, financial secure, fit, clean and healthy... Looking for a wonderful woman to have a WFB relationship... Not only sex, but also partner in crime, gym partner, hang out partner, and may be much more...

You should be petite, openmind, sane, creative, fit, clean and healthy just like me :)

Bonus points if you are 1) submissive, 2) Geeky/techy... 3) Love anime/hentai...

Serious reply only.

Available For Dinner... - m4m (mill valley) 38yr

2008-09-04T16:54:31-07:00

I'm a smart good looking guy, good conversationalist, like to make new friends. If you're cute, normal, come take me to dinner. Doesn't have to be too fancy! maybe burgers and a couple beers in one of these great towns here, or a walk/hike as well. NOT looking for a hookup. I'm on a modest budget right now, so I'm looking for someone who can treat. Really looking for a very relaxed, really fun time with a nice guy. I'm 6 175 white masculine and athletic. 420 great, if you have some. Thanks.

You are Desi, attached and a triffle bored and looking here? - m4w (anywhere) 32yr

2008-09-04T16:36:34-07:00

Hello and thanks for reading my ad,

I am posting this in hopes of finding a bored or confused or unhappy Indian lady who is new to this internet thingie.... It has been a wish of mine for quite some time to get to know an Indian woman- I like my own culture, the exotic look, the nice brown skin, and I figure, why not? If you are attached or otherwise taken, that's fine. You want a true friend, and I'm there for you. I'm Indian myself! No hidden agenda.

I am medium tall, well built, highly educated, and have a great career if that matters...

Anyway...if interested, you know what to do....

Looking for indian woman who can keep a secret - m4w (sunnyvale) 36yr

2008-09-04T16:36:24-07:00

Are you Indian lady? What is your status....
Can you keep a secret.....without feeling guilty about your actions, but accepting the fact
that some things happen without any explanation?

If so please contact me.

I'm an Indian male, very guilt free, friendly, free and easy going. I can keep a secret very well.

Oh, you can be of any marital situation.

Please email and let's talk!

Bored desi woman looking for friendship/romance? (nothing serious) - m4w (south bay) 36yr

2008-09-04T16:36:12-07:00

Hiya...

The requirements: Be Indian, a woman, bored, any marital status.

Be in your 20s, 30s or 40s.

I am looking for a woman who is open minded, friendly.

If you have undergone travails, pains in your life all the better!

I'm a desi man who is all of the above!

Hope to hear back

Discreet Sensual massage available for curious/eager Indian woman - m4w (south bay) 35yr

2008-09-04T16:36:01-07:00

So you must be wondering whether this is a genuine ad or a prank....

Well let me very honest and straightforward....this is a 100% genuine ad from
a 100% genuine easy going Indian stud who likes to watch a woman from my own
country relax blissfully under my expert massage involving the whole body, both
physically and sensually. Yes I'm also expert at art of "y o n i" stimulation and
release which most women fail to experience. Have you experienced a blissful
massage any time?

I'm in my 30s...athletic, handsome 5'9"....medium built. If you are still shy, we can
meet for coffee first and take it from there.

Please shed your inhibitions.....You will find a true friend in me.

SWM searching to be owned sexually by SW - m4w (santa clara) 55yr

2008-09-04T15:50:18-07:00

SWM searching to be owned sexually by SW. Prefer woman who has some experience with chastity devise (CB 3000, the curve?) though strong curiosity is also okay. Although I have a strong libido I prefer to be faithful to one woman and be used by her. I live in the South Bay and prefer someone closer by. Sometimes there is an emergency, quite painful at times, and need to be released. Other than that I am at your pleasure. I do work out at the gym and in the locker room it is nice to be freed. It is much easier to shower and the steam. Could work out at the same gym? If this is too much then it is the price I pay to the right woman. I am curious, well educated, well spoken, polite, SWM, hetro, 6�2�, 200 lb., about 8� when released, drug free, nonsmoker, STD free, safety minded. If this sounds of interest to you then please feel free to contact me for further discussion. Thanks for your time.

S.E. Asian looking to date other Male - m4m (san jose east) 27yr

2008-09-04T15:44:34-07:00

Anyone interested in dating an Asian male from the South Bay. I am professional, educated, caring, and very friendly to get along with. I am looking for someone who like to have fun together. We can spend time at a restaurant or cook great meal together. I am open about things. Please be under 40, friendly, outgoing, and talkative. Pleae send me a picture too if you have one. I look forward to hearing from you. Stay cool!

Lookin to date a Genuine Romantic GWM for LTR - m4m (SF/EASTBAY) 38yr

2008-09-04T13:27:30-07:00

Filipino/Latin professional here in the eastbay, 5' 7 140 lbs, smooth, boyish looks, who's ready to meet that special guy. seriously attracted to a caucasian/european guy under 45 who not only has a big heart but has a great built as well(my weakness is a muscled gentleman who takes care of himself, free of disease & drugs). i wanna meet someone who i can have a mutual attraction with, hoefully a guy who can be crazy about me. i'm described to be simple, kinda shy(though easily warms up to people i feel i connect with), friendly, affectionate, thoughtful, outgoing, open to adventures & learning, & just simply wants to meet that guy who i hope & pray i'll grow old with.
right now, i'm so open to meeting people for friendship. no rush for love & romance. i believe it comes at the right time.
lemme know about yourself. a clear face pic would be appreciated. i'll respond with mine in return.

An Innocent Encounter - m4w (financial district) 33yr

2008-09-04T13:08:02-07:00

I'm in a relationship, but after five years of not so much as touching another woman, I'd like to do just that.

I'm looking run my hand around a woman's waist, over her ass, and then maybe cup a breast in my hand. Basically I'm looking to feel a woman up - and have it end there.

Mutual touching would be fine, but no kissing on the lips, or engaging in other sexual activities. Think of it as a very thorough hug.

I'm fairly attractive, and willing to share pics of course for someone else interested.

Thanks

Married and curious about extramarital LT relationship? - m4w (Millbrae) 41yr

2008-09-04T12:17:31-07:00

OK, here it goes. I've been reading these ads, first for entertainment, then with curiosity. Then I thought, maybe I should try this out. I'm willing to take a chance and see what happens. How about you?

I'm not looking for a pen pal, cybersex or a one-night stand nor am I out to disrupt anyone's life. I don't know if it's possible to find what I'm looking for here, but I would like an on-going, long-term relationship with someone who will become uniquely special to me.

I am educated, easygoing, adventurous, open-minded, engaging, and have a good sense of humor. I don't use drugs, only drink socially, and will be very discreet. I understand the demands of marriage and family life, the limited availability, the last-minute changes of plans, but I am determined to work around all this.

I'm looking for a woman in a situation similar to mine that is in a committed relationship, but finds that that romance once shared has mysteriously disappeared. Perhaps, you've been thinking of doing something about it for a while, but may be a little reluctant to try. Maybe the thought of sharing the warmth, delight, and pleasure that only two people attracted to each other can give one another is still exciting, and something that is worth taking a little time and risk for a chance of finding something satisfying on many levels.

As good as it may sound, maybe you're thinking that the odds of finding someone you'll like and feel comfortable with seem impossible, but if you're serious and determined to do something about your present situation, then give this a try! Send an email and let's see what happens...

One IN A Million Women - m4w (mountain view) 39yr

2008-09-04T11:36:02-07:00

Thank you for reading my add.

I am nice, attractive, well-traveled, normal, white male professional looking for a nice, attractive, professional female who is very sexual and either attached or not. Attached would be the best match.

My interests are Soccer, tennis, SCUBA diving, European and South American Travel, home improvement, and the workings of the economy.

Physical description: 5'8"tall, 150lbs, athletic build, brown hair, all my teeth, great hygiene, std/smoke/drug free.

Please send a photo with your reply. Please no spam. I will search out spammers and alert Craigslist. Let's keep CL for real people. Thank you.

Currently married, seeking quiet relationship - m4w (Meet in or near San Francisco) 42yr

2008-09-04T11:29:54-07:00

I'm an attractive married man who would like to connect with a woman on an emotional and physical level. Although my needs are not being met in my marriage, I have no desire to divorce right now. I'm looking for a "win-win" relationship that could develop into something special. Discretion is an absolute must.

You and I should both be in good physical shape, d/d-free and willing to practice safe sex! Neither you nor I want just a one night stand but an ongoing friendship with good passionate intimacy. We both love to kiss and savor foreplay for a long time. We are both educated, intelligent, sensual, good-natured and have a nice sense of humor. Also, you and I should both be close to the same age.

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2008-09-04T11:16:59-07:00

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for the uninhibited lady only please - m4w (sonoma county) 50yr

2008-09-04T11:01:51-07:00

i am a very sincere, nice looking "true gentleman" seeking an uninhibited lady who would be interested in recieving a medical type , induced orgasm.. this method is sometimes used in artificial insemination .. i use my gloved hands to gently stimulate the clitoris, g-spot and other sensual areas in order to slowly bring about a heightened sensual state and bring about a powerful tension releasing climax.. its important to know that i am NOT seeking intercourse or any reciprocation.. this is entirely about your pleasure and orgasm.. i am avaiable daily to make house calls and will travel to your location anywhere from novato to ukiah.. safe, discreet and very sincere..

Where in the heck is she? - m4w

2008-09-04T10:59:36-07:00

Where is my sidekick I have been looking for? That 30's to 50's attractive, fit, extremely intelligent, selective married woman who is also searching for her kinky early 40's married friend for a discreet partner in crime and mischief?

Is it really this hard to find a kinky play partner?

medically induced orgasm - m4w (novato) 50yr

2008-09-04T10:36:59-07:00

hi, i am a very nice looking, extremely well groomed , sincere gentleman who is skilled in administering a medically induced orgasm. a medically induced orgasm is simply a doctor like vaginal exam which includes clitoral , g-spot and anal stimulation which will slowly bring you to a point of sexual urgency culminating in a powerful orgasm.. i am NOT seeking any sexual reciprocation .. you may wear a robe for modesty and i will expose only what is necessary.. i use "sterile examination gloves" for the more intimate parts of the stimulation process and am always sensitive to your personal needs or requests.. i gaurantee to bring you to new heights of pleasure and am totally commited to your pleasure, safety and satisfaction.. sorry no intercourse or unsafe behavior.. available daily and will make "house calls" to any north bay town from novato to ukiah.. safe, discreet and hygenic ..

Seeking someone for FWB type of thing to start of - m4w 29yr

2008-09-04T10:05:04-07:00

Title says it all....email me if u r intrested and we will talk more

English guy in the UK seeks girl penpal for erotic emails - m4w (walnut creek) 36yr

2008-09-04T09:52:55-07:00

Hello I'm a fit attractive and sane London guy in the UK.

I have a penchant for erotica and would like to chat with a female penpal to swap stories and fantasies; or you can just read mine.

I'm fit, athletic, with yummy dark brown eyes and brown hair with a vivid/wicked imagination and a great sense of humour.

Let the fun begin. Oh and I am a little familiar with the Bay Area from some time ago and love American girls, hence the posting.

Masculine jock lookin... (danville / san ramon)

2008-09-04T09:52:42-07:00

Hey guys, Str8 lifestyle masc. jock here, stable grounded, easy goin a real nice small town guy... into many sports and interests, mostly hockey, gym, swim, sk8, snowboard, mtn bike, dirt bikes, cars...are their any younger fit guys into these things who want a relationship? Somewhere their has to be a str8ish type guy wired like me...a sweet wht boy, smooth a plus cuz I love to go crazy on the gear below the belt;) not into fronts and attitudes:)

Fun, Loving Asian guy seeks counterpart - m4m (financial district) 40yr

2008-09-04T09:52:24-07:00

Hello,

I think of myself as a fun and loving guy.
Mellow and romantic at times.

I'm Asian, 40yrs and 8 months. Hee hee.
I'm around 5'7" and weighs about 155.

I work in the City and live in the Eastbay.
I do drive so there's no problem dating in either.

I like spending time with friends and family enjoying a nice meal and conversation. I like films, live theatres and arts too. I also like to travel and explore different cultures. When I get a chance, I do love to play tennis.

I think that's good for now.
Give me a shout and tell me about yourself if interested.

Cheers.

for the discreet , sensual and very uninhibited - m4w (rohnert pk / cotati) 50yr

2008-09-04T09:15:03-07:00

if you have ever fantasized about your doctor bringing you to an orgasm while conducting a medical exam you will truly appreciate my special service..i am very skilled at bringing a woman to a "medically induced orgasm" using a special tecnique to stimulate the clitoris, g-spot and other sensual areas in a very safe, sterile and totally satisfying manner.. i am NOT seeking intercourse and do not offer it as well as any unsafe sexual behavior.. my "examination" is conducted in a very professional manner and will never ask for any reciprocation.. i am avaiable daily and will make "house calls" to any sonoma county location.. drop me a note if your uninhibited and seeking a safe way to release sexual tension and frustrations.. discreet, sincere and very real..

..... domestic servant - m4w

2008-09-04T08:59:31-07:00

If you are a woman (49+) comfortable with your authority, who can enjoy being in control, and could make use of a thoroughly submissive man at your feet on a regular schedule or as needed, to clean, run errands, do secretarial work, gardening, or what you will, at your home or business, promptly obedient to you and anyone else you assign, however whimsical, arbitrary, or strict your demands, this trim, fit, trustworthy, well-mannered submissive awaits your pleasure.

are you the one ? - m4m 30yr

2008-09-04T08:56:31-07:00

Seriously, I'm not looking for hookups ...
I'm not sure how successful people are in posting an ad here .. I have not been lucky so far, but i think it's still worth another try...
I've been living here in US for about 7 years now. My family and relatives and friends are back in my home country.
I've been focusing a lot on work and stabilizing myself here and love/social life hasn't been fruitful.. i think it's time for me to throw myself back into the ocean and see what's in life for me..
I've been starting over and making friends but its hard to find genuine, sincere friends. I'm hoping to find best friends first and if things go really well, maybe more...

A little of the "mandatory info" about myself. I'm a 30 year old Asian guy (have been told i look younger), 5'7" and 148lbs, buzzed haircut. Consider myself average looking but have been told cute, usually quiet because i tend to be a good listener than a talker, I'm focused, witty, have good family values(thank my family for that), thinks a lot, sincere, thoughtful of others, always curious. I work out at the gym to stay fit.. but not a gym bunny.

some more about me: i haven't travelled a lot but have been planning on either a Europe trip(scenic) or a South American trip (wildlife) .. i'm not into bar scenes and prefer spending time outdoors or quiet time at home... i love my family. i love kids and old people since i find that you can learn a lot from them ... i love music.. but has the quirk of not knowing the lyrics or the singers or even the titles, just enjoy the melody of the song.. i love food and pastries, I try to cook... i love the smell of rain as it somehow brings me comfort...i love smell of coffee too.. i love discovery channel, national geographic, history channel, TLC, hgtv.. and of course.. food network! =)

I dont do drugs, non smoker and drinks a little, socially.

my life motto is to be a good son, a caring brother, a true friend, a sweet lover and a righteous human being. I'm a believer of monogamous closed relationship.

I'm looking for someone preferrably close to my age (27-42), have similar interests to share with... have different interests that i can learn and explore... someone who is honest and sincere and down to earth, has a big heart, loves his family. not into mind games. have a preference towards someone who is masculine, not into drugs, non smoker, no STDs.

if this sounds interesting to you.. drop me a message. it'll be great too to include a pic and a description of yourself.
looking forward to hear from you ..

thanks

medically induced orgasm - m4w (santa rosa) 50yr

2008-09-04T08:51:55-07:00

i am back to serve you.. if you are an uninhibited lady that is only interested in recieving a very sensual and erotic "medically induced orgasm" which is the art of bringing a women to a wonderful , safe and hygenic climax using my hands, fingers and special medical type toy to stimulate the clitoris, g-spot and anal area to slowly bring you to new heights of sexual urgency culminating in a wonderful orgasm.. sory no intercourse or any unsafe behavior.. no reciprocation necessary.. this is entirely about your pleasure.. avaiable daily and will make house calls to any sonoma county location..

I am looking to have fun this week.....SAF - w4m (marina / cow hollow) 35yr

2008-09-04T08:45:04-07:00

I�m single, intelligent and looking for someone special to share those great evenings with. I�m attractive, tan skinned, 5'5" with a great communication style (I like to listen to your stories and tell a few of my own).

Write a note and tell me about you with picture. I prefer a guy who lives in San Francisco.

Nerd Looking For Sexy/Sweet Geek - m4m (oakland lake merritt / grand) 28yr

2008-09-04T07:36:24-07:00

Hi!

Just to get the mundane stuff out of the way- I'm 5'10, 175lbs, brown eyes, black hair, average to fit depending on how much video gaming as opposed to working out I've been doing (heh). I'm half Japanese half white just in case the picture is ambiguous. Vers.

Lately I've been daydreaming about jumping back into dating so I'm looking for a new boy to go see movies with, take trips to SF and try out new restaraunts go see concerts with etc. I'm into somewhat dorky guys, usually slim with darker hair. Although I'm pretty independent I love playing sidekick with any interests/hobbies guys are intense about. Not looking for perfection by any means but taking care of yourself and reasonably conversational is a must.

I'm a little more of a laid-back and chill around the house kinda guy but I'm definitely not opposed to going out and doing fun stuff by any means. I don't hit up the bars like I did when I was 21-24 but if I were to go to your office christmas party I can get all the over the hill ladies up and shakin' their money-makers. I love that dating/seeing someone regularly gives me opportunities to do romantic things I normally wouldn't get to do like making dinner and suggesting places to check out together.

I'll stop rambling but if any of this sounds interesting, say hi, perhaps send a pic, it never hurts.

Later!
Matt

Married Male seeks a younger Woman who enjoys older Men! - m4w (mountain view) 52yr

2008-09-04T06:10:28-07:00

I've been spending all night,thinking about what I use to spend all night doing lol. Whatever happened to the excitement and romance? perhaps your thoughts are the same.

You might be a Woman who is in a similar marriage,or just a Woman who doesn't have the time or desire to deal with the drama of a man who is not the center of your universe.

I'm looking for a South Bay Woman who would enjoy the company of this 5'10",185lb married male for a long term intimate relationship.

I'd like to find someone who is comfortable with her own sexual needs and desires,and doesn't have a problem expressing what they are. Being able to carry a conversation,and listen equally well is a plus.

If any of this interests you,perhaps you are that Woman! You should be in shape,height to weight proportionate,clean,D/D free,discreet and know what you want. I'm open to all age's and race's. If you reply, please be serious.

looking for TS or CD friend - t4t (SF North bay ) 40yr

2008-09-04T05:56:21-07:00

Making friends is so hard ,, I'm going though a hard spot in life all I want is a friend gee i'm very sweet and have been used and My time is wasting away
I have never done anything! anyway thats for MY friend to hear if I meet one
that is i will not send pictuers because but I'm ok looking for i will not pass for a woman :( well maybe with some help :) so please I'm in need of a friend who understands ,, xxooxxxooxxxoo

I want a Bad Date - m4w (berkeley north / hills) 49yr

2008-09-04T04:47:24-07:00

Ladies

Have you ever went out with a man, then had sex with his brother? has this happened more than once? This post could be for you.

Have you ever been invited to a wedding then had sex with the groom? (a man you never even dated) This post could be for you.

Do you provide a moment in every one of your dates, for your date to run away? (only because you know he really needs to) This post IS FOR YOU

Have you ever posted late on a Friday on CL, to find someone to take you to a festival seating concert on Sat? (then run away as soon as your in the gate?) then this post is ABSOLUTELY FOR YOU.

LADIES START YOUR ENGINES I am looking for women who are so bad there good. If you ever suspected your bad habits might approach a new art form then you probably are

MY DREAM BAD DATE. You must live very near Berkeley (To easy to just stand me up) Please Be at least 35 years old

No broken glass, no violence, no cops otherwise do your thing. : ) Please send a picture with your reply. Its OK to use one that's 10 years old. (Just so long as you have gained weight since it was taken).

Looking forward to hearing from you

Want to go on a date? - m4m (Bay Area) 25yr

2008-09-04T03:17:34-07:00

Don't really know how to fill these things out but I'll give it a shot...

Me:
25 yrs old, 5'7", 180, Mexican decent, college grad, stable job, car.

Interests:
Reading, exploring, movies, music, gaming, kicking back, you name it... I probably have done it or hate it hehe.

You:
21-28
Height/weight proportionate
Latino or Filipino (open to others but they get first dibs)
Shaved head and/or glasses a plus
Educated or pursuing a higher education
Employed

I am sure I missed a few things here and there so feel free to ask and I will answer. Do not reply offering social gathering events as I do not want to be contacted about other services, products or commercial interests (I have been sent emails about coffee shop meet ups before). Also, please take the time to describe yourself and how you think we might click versus just responding to this ad and asking for pictures. In do time I will provide pictures but don't rush it.

Seeking a sexy and stable boyfriend - m4m (castro / upper market) 26yr

2008-09-04T01:33:59-07:00

I'm a 26 yo, Asian, gay boy from SoCal just moved up here for a new environment/friends/job market. I'm friendly, nice, cool, chill and normal.
I'm about 5'10, 148 lbs, black hair/brwn eyes, used to run and swim, toned, versatile/bottom guy, negative, cute, sexy, shy, serious, silly (have been told). My dream career goal is to open my own Advertising Firm. :)

Seeking a handsome, sexy, stable, successful boyfriend in the city, between 24 - 38 ish, negative, funny, a little silly and maybe can dance :). I am usually into White guys but open to all though. :) Well, if this sounds like you, shoot an email with pics, we'll hook up somehow.

Thanks for reading.

looking for a lesbian girl/friend - m4w (russian river) 44yr

2008-09-03T22:03:02-07:00

I am looking for a lesbian that would like a boy/friend and maybe in the long run a husband. I am looking for a connection that does not rely on sex to create intimacy. I understand your sexual interests lead you to women, but you may still want the company of a man. I am a good man; I enjoy working around the house. I have a job I like, I keep my bills paid, i have a friends that i enjoy spending time with, but I want a girl/friend that is my best pal. I know this sounds strange, but if you are out there and looking for man like me please send me a note. This can be about sharing some of our life together or maybe you have an idea of how this might work...

Are you a handsome guy next door looking for dating and friendship - m4m (oakland lake merritt / grand) 46yr

2008-09-03T22:01:24-07:00

Looking for a nice, handsome, intelligent, guy next door type for friendship and dating. Prefer that you are over 30, passionate, intelligent and handsome.

Looking to take things slowly and see if a good friendship can form. Start with good conversation, nice company, exploring the bay area, etc.

I'm a nice guy, reasonably intelligent, bay area native, curious, romantic, passionate and caring man. If you like an over 40, slightly geeky, tall, husky, hairy, bearish type guy, with spectacles (6'2", 245#), take a chance drop me a line. Looking for one special guy. When you're ready I'll be here!

You're not the missing puzzle piece, you're the proscuitto to my peach - m4m 20yr

2008-09-03T21:57:41-07:00

The kind of person I am:

Someone who doesn't feel the need to categorize himself as a "bottom" or a "top"
Self-sacrificing
A romantic
Enjoys life's simple pleasures
Loves the idea of being wrapped in another man's arms and falling asleep together
A little neurotic
Irritable at times
Passive aggresive
Very open and forward about how I feel
Worrisome
Initially shy
Capricious
Multi-talented
Indecisive and picky; sometimes simultaneously
Appreciative of many art-forms
A total foodie

The kind of person I'd like to be with:

Someone who has a sense of humor similar to mine
Someone who can embrace both the beautiful and the ugly
Someone who is willing to work through the hard times
Someone who likes the idea of an old-fashioned lover
Someone who values communication and respect
Someone who can be insecure at times, too
Someone who likes to be affectionate
and someone who loves food

Everything else is just details.

And when I say "just details", I don't mean that I don't care about anything else that you may use to define yourself. What I really mean to say is that I'm not looking for a man to fulfill my checklist for the perfect partner who likes this and that and weighs this much and makes this much money.

I'm attracted to lots of different types of men. Different ethnicities, types, sizes and ages. Do I appreciate people who are more fit? Yeah. But I can like big boys too. Am I attracted to certain types of ethnicities more than others? Yeah. But I've been attracted to white guys, latin guys, api's, mixed guys, east asian guys, middle eastern guys, etc. etc. You get where I'm going here. And if you don't, chances are we probably wouldn't get along.

Just looking for someone who'll get me and someone who I can understand, too.

Anyone wanna meet for dinner and movie? - m4m (berkeley north / hills) 36yr

2008-09-03T19:56:44-07:00

Got home earlier than usual and would like to grab a bite to eat and catch a movie. Anyone game? Not really a romantic request, just hang out and a mellow but fun night out. Prefer to stay around Berkeley area (downtown or around there). I'm asian american, easy on the eyes, friendly, good conversation. If you're up for it, reply back with info about you and of course a pic would be ++.

Midwestern Hairy Man looking for his partner in crime.... - m4m (noe valley) 40yr

2008-09-03T19:45:39-07:00

I am a 40 years old MansMan. Not suitable for the twines or the smooth boys out there.

6'1" 220# HIV- and STD Free 8/08 34w Midwestern hairy good sturdy rugged built man.
Very masculine and down to earth, not looking for Drama, I can TiVo that crap if I wanted to see it!
Laid back, outdoors type, I keep it honest and real and expect the same out of people.
I hold action and honesty very high up on the attribute list and require a man that is true to his word.

If you are the type that enjoys the simple things in life like cooking at home, cuddling up and watching a movie, enjoying a glass of wine on the balcony, talking about life with the lights out in bed, have goals and futures ideas, then you just might be the guy for me!

I have a great life in almost all aspects except one, and that is to find someone else that is catching the same vibe and wants to share some life together.

The type I am most attracted to is another no nonsense type of man, very masculine, around my age +/- 5 years, I like them tall like me, hurts my back too much to keep bending down to kiss. It is a must that you possess self-respect to take care of their body, mind and spirit. Hairy, rugged, muscle are a good thing when you need to lift a car off someone, but not looking for someone who has a set gym schedule and spends $852.98 on supplements a week. NEG- here looking for the same. Dark skin men always and accents always make me melt. Not really into Asians or IP's, just not my type that I am sexually attracted to.

Be masculine by nature like me, sane, drama-free, good sense of humor and better heart are all pluses in my book! Think a younger Magnum PI- Tom Selleck/Burt Reynolds/Mark Spits and your in like flin and will have my undivided attention, excuse me for staring at you constantly!

Have to know how to kiss or this is not going to work. Be on the top of things more than the bottom. Know the difference between having hot sex and making love, know how to hold afterwards and kiss on the ear while being wrapped in in your arms. Know when kiss and hug and hold instead of sex. And for the love of baby jesus know how to use your mouth for more than just yapping!

If this sounds like we might be a good fit then by all means drop me something about yourself, and what your looking for and include a picture like I have. And save the lectures for someone that wants to hear them. As much as I am not everyone cup of tea either, I do have the right to be specific in what I am looking for and what is attractive to me.

Thank you!

Looking for on going relation without commetment, please read to end - w4w (East bay) 32yr

2008-09-03T19:13:15-07:00

Please read to the end, it is different
I am looking for a lisbean female, who doesn't hate men, but just hate intercourse, and she likes strong and yet gentle hands to massage all her body, loves her G spot to be massaged, gets aroused and cum from the right touches.
I meant to put my post here, because most women in m4w are looking for intercourse which is not my goal at all, I am a striaght, but don't think intercourse with a stranger is a good idea, but I don't mind if I massage you the best massage ever, and make you cum too.
your feelings is important to me, so don't worry I will make sure you are in the mood, and you are happy.
Me: 31, 6-0, super hygiene, dd free, honest man, olive skin.
You: 21 - 41, super hygiene, drama free, not too heavy (little extra meat is good), good attitude, serious.

dating anyone? - m4m (ingleside / SFSU / CCSF) 25yr

2008-09-03T18:56:47-07:00

Im looking to go out on a date and maybe see what happens... Im 5'11 290Lbs and a bottom. please send pic and stats for trade.

Nice looking, shy, funny guy seeks same(w) 4 sensual fun - m4w (santa rosa) 53yr

2008-09-03T18:51:40-07:00

Sensual fun. That could include a great dinner at a nice restaurant you've always
wanted to go to but didnt want to go alone. Yeah, me too. It might also include
sitting on a couch pretending to watch a dvd but winding up making out for an
hour or so until we can't stand it anymore. Or maybe just a great back massage
from someone whose hands stray a bit too far as you mumble into my pillow "stop that!"
But I don't.

Mixed Azn Girliboi foe Masc Athletic Black Gents - t4m (fremont / union city / newark) 35yr

2008-09-03T18:49:24-07:00

yo be smart strong hung big with and have outdoor spaces to be and go for fun sexx and very big places. yu pic fuo my pic

WARM FRIENDSHIP, HOT BENEFITS - U & Me - m4m (San Jose Fellow) 61yr

2008-09-03T17:43:06-07:00

I'm seek a guy who is NOT married, not in a relationship, lives in or not far from San Jose, and is mature. You are in decent shape, looks, and masculine. You are romantic, sensual, nice package and cut. You are healthy and fully functioning say about 55-65. Younger OK but only if you like older.

I'm five ten, about 190 or a little less, nice on the eyes, sexy attitude and body, and make love in the female role. I'm a romantic, hot lover, good loyal and honest friend. Also bring to the table a fun conversationalist with a sense of humor. I'm totally oral, hot bottom, love to hug, cuddle and kiss and love pillow talk. I'm very clean always and healthy no diseases. I'm emotionally and financially sound, you be the same.

Please be ready for a relationship with a guy. Experience or not is fine but please not timid. There are no guarantees, but we could take a first step. Be able to host at least sometimes.

Tell me what you like and your stats and we can share pics discreetly.

xoxo .....

Latina Exquisitttttt ------ Masc Athletic Blak Male - t4m (fremont / union city / newark) 31yr

2008-09-03T17:07:20-07:00

looking for more than sex. want relations meaningful and passions more than anyone else for mutual uno numural one 4 uss. sind pic

old school party - mm4ww (santa clara)

2008-09-03T16:47:39-07:00

we are 2 guys who are sick of the bar thing and want to have some good old time fun,long walks,going to the beach,BBQ's with lots of friends,having a good time partying and dancing at home some time,bike rides,you know old school without all the pressure. just want to meet 2 girls who dont mind having some fun,(note we have lots of friends in different places so you have to be willing to keep up)we believe that the old way of having fun is the best and that its not hard to have fun with some one who is not pushing you in to anything, oh yea, we do go fishing and camping so if you dont like the outdoors well you know. so if you find yourself board and in need of a good time try our group and see where it takes you. we do like to see who we are talking to so please have a picture as we have given you one. now to keep it short and to the point we just want to have fun with some nice ladys, no need to bring we have it all only thing missing is you! so put on your hat and dancing shoes and try this party for now is the time to have fun. p.s. if you have fear of trying new things this might not be for you, but if you feel you want to try then WELCOME TO THE PARTY!

Stay married but have romantic friendship, perhaps more - m4w (San Bruno) 41yr

2008-09-03T16:37:41-07:00

You can't or you won't leave for your own personal reason, plausible or not?

Your marriage has long been over; no more kissing, touching, cuddling, no more lovemaking? Do you miss the feelings of being alive?

Do you miss being romanced, being held, being caressed? Where has the passion gone? When was the last time you tongue-kissed? Do you want to feel that again?!

Maybe we can't leave, but that doesn't mean we have to die inside. I'm looking for one married woman, for an affaire d'amour.

Are you that woman?

Let's find each other!

I look and feel great, am in good shape, have tons of energy and a pic for a first impression.

..... very submissive man ..... - m4w

2008-09-03T16:02:37-07:00

I am well-mannered, service-trained, reliable, trim, fit, and eager to serve and obey a woman (50+), couple, or household as housekeeper, personal assistant, errand boy, or what you will. You are strict, comfortable with your authority, and able to enjoy your power and your control. References available.
An insignificant other awaits your pleasure.

Fem Switch seeks servant - w4m (fremont / union city / newark) 24yr

2008-09-03T14:40:49-07:00

I am a 24 year female switch seeking a domestic servant, plaything, pet etc. I have been in the scene for about 5 years. I have toys/implements,rope,porn and special attire for both of us to enjoy.

I am a natural born female, 24, white, 36d, 150lbs. disease free, pnp friendly. I need help around the house due to a hurt ankle. I am not looking for a one stand! I am looking for a assistant with benefits. We can work out the punishments, benefits, etc

You should be:
preferably male but females will also be considered
21-40, Not bald, hwp
Non smoking, Disease free
No hard drugs like heroin, coke, etc just happy hippie shit like bud,e,etc
Into the bdsm, burning man, rave and/or other cool scenes

I am looking for a flexible situation. I want a more casual exchange of service, emotion and possibly erotic pleasure. I don�t generally provide physical pain but could for the right person. I myself am a bottom and like to provid service so maybe we could trade week to week. If you are a dom in scene but take care and dote on your subs in the default world then send me a line�we should talk.

As I said I am not looking for a stressfull hard edge deal. Let me know what you are looking for, your skills and so forth.

Pic for pic....please don't send cock pics.
I like faces, arms, backs..you know the hot stuff that you work on at the gym not while watching porn.

Seeking BBW lover for long term relationship - m4w (East Bay) 40yr

2008-09-03T14:24:51-07:00

Seeking a beautiful large woman for an ongoing relationship. Seeking someone that likes to have fun in and out of the bedroom. I like to travel, nice restaurants, camping, movies etc.

If you are looking for plenty of positive attention and a good time I look forward to hearing from you. I am married so discretion is a must. Age and race not important.

jock back from burning man wants to wrestle ssf or sf (black rock city) 40yr

2008-09-03T14:23:18-07:00

native San Franciscan seeking new male biwm chill coolguy for friendships, workout buddies, wrestling buds, outdoor activity buddies, road trips, clubbing (not on baby seals), and just someone to hang out with. I'm very outgoing, enjoy staying active, and just like exploring the bay area and surrounding country. I have short black hair, about 5'9", brown eyes, and weigh about 165 pds--for now, want to buff up. prefer younger guys up to around 185 pounds just guidelines. Hope to hear from you. I have boyfriend so not looking for anal but lite play and friends or just buds ns nd no drink be healty and able to keep up i just turned 40 but look lots younger have pic to trade send one if u want one.
p.s. bigots and assholes please find someone else to vent on and limit your carry on baggage to small suitcase

dress me and fuck me with your strap on - m4w (mountain view) 23yr

2008-09-03T13:57:39-07:00

hi,im 23 years old ,good looking white boy..looking for a dominant woman (or group of women)to dress me up as a woman,and have your way with me. i have always been the more submissive one in all my relationships.and have always dreamed of tring role reversal and the bdsm lifestyle. am willing to try just about anything ....have your way with me

> Tall, Dark and Handsome MM seeks attached FWB - m4w (san jose north) 38yr

2008-09-03T13:46:00-07:00

Ok, maybe not tall but average...

I've been married for 10 years but for the last few years my marriage seems to be stuck in a rut, lacking in passion and intimacy. I am looking for a married/attached woman in a similar position to confide in, be my friend and just have a little bit of fun on the side! Not looking for anything serious to develop. We should both be committed to staying in our marriages and just looking to spice things up a bit.

Me: 38, biracial, black hair & brown eyes, very fit and attractive, employed, DD free, non-smoker. Very caring, kindhearted, outgoing and down-to-earth. Open-minded and non-judgemental.

You: close of my age, height and weight proportionate. Open minded and adventurous. Non-smoker and drug free. Race unimportant.

Discretion is a must. Please be willing to exchange photos within a few days and write back only if you are serious about this. No games, please.

Take a chance and respond. At the minimum you could end up gaining a new friend.

After giving this much thought i have finally decided to go forth.. - m4w (fremont / union city / newark)

2008-09-03T12:46:20-07:00

After giving this much thought i have finally decided to go forth with what I am seeking. First off I will be totally honest I am a professional married white male. What i am seeking is to meet a woman that is interested in meeting for discreet sexual encounters. I am not looking for many partners, just one that I can feel comfortable with, trust and is on the same level as I am as far as what we both are seeking. Your age, race and weight are not as important as your seriousness and maturity level. I am open to all that are interested and will choose the one that I get along and feel most comfortable with. I am 36 in shape with an athletic build. I have brown hair and brown eyes a great smile and an easygoing personality. I 'm not the pushy type and always respect others. Discretion is a must a long with playing safe. If you find and interest an feel that this is something you would like to do please reply with some detailed info about yourself . So what ever your age race shape size or maritial status let me know if your interested. Sincerly ..........

looking for wakeboarding partner - m4w (san jose west) 40yr

2008-09-03T12:46:10-07:00

I am looking for that fun girl that wants to go boarding this weekend. Just want to have a good time on the water. Please send pic and quick bio to get a reply. Talk to you soon

Sexy Black Male Transvestite - t4m (Oakland, CA) 41yr

2008-09-03T12:43:39-07:00

Hello! I am a Bi-Sexual Black Male Transvestite! I am living in the East Bay,area. I am 6'2", 170lbs. Looking for a Boyfriend--masculine straight well-hung (8+ & thick on the girth, please), 30+yrs, generous...one with a fetish for transvestites. Friendship then a pos LTR with the right person would be ideal. I carry myself completely fem when I am in conversion. I am domesticated and Love to please that special someone who is willing to treat and support me in every way as the woman I am and strive to be. Are you looking for a girlie-friend like me? Hit Me Up!!!! Let's get to know each other. I live in Oakland. PS--Booty-Call, Eh? I might! If you don't measure up, please don't waste your time on me. Please include photos with your response or don't bother at all.

Hot couple looking for hot woman to spoil - mw4w (SOMA / south beach) 31yr

2008-09-03T12:42:34-07:00

Sexy couple looking for a lucky lady to satisfy.
Please send us a pic.
No men!!!

safe married fun - m4w

2008-09-03T11:17:28-07:00

want married female interested in phone sex and watching each other masturbate. NO contact, just safe sexy play

Looking for fun companion today, meet for lunch, maybe more - m4w (east bay or city) 36yr

2008-09-03T11:13:01-07:00

I've got the day off and am feeling adventurous. Let's meet for lunch, see if we click, and then either go have some fun or just go our separate ways.

I'm a successful, confident, sexy, fit guy, friendly, easy to talk to, and when you meet me you'll probably say "what were YOU doing on craigslist?"

I hope to be able to say the same to you and make sure you're smiling the rest of the day.

Are you my strict but loving Daddy/Sir? - w4m (On my knees) 41yr

2008-09-03T11:03:38-07:00

Are you a strict but loving Daddy/Sir? I am in need of you. I am looking for someone to further develop my BDSM skills. I have been in the life for about 6 years. I know when to be a good girl. Please be safe and sane, safer sex only. I'm not looking to move in with you. I have my own home.

A little about me: Loving, respectful, good sense of humor, don't take life's aggravations too seriously, tall, HWP, longish blonde hair, blue eyes, long legs, cook up a storm ( I love to cook a delicious meal for my Daddy).

A little about you: Tall, 38-50, reasonably in shape, strong, dominant, loving, humorous, knows how to take care of his baby girl/submissive.

Let's exchange a couple of emails and arrange to meet in a safe public place.
EDIT: I have received several e-mails from married men. I am not interested in being the other woman. Unless you are in a Poly relationship and your wife is fully aware, I cannot in good conscience date or play with you. And to the man who told me that Daddys have to be 20+ years older than the girl, Daddy is a state of mind, not a chronological age.

you want a massage - m4w (san bruno)

2008-09-03T10:33:30-07:00

hello ladies I just want to know if you so tired in the morning reply for sex massage and relaxtion if yes reply at my ad

Looking for a Cuck Couple, Bi CPL, or single Female - m4mw (san jose north) 29yr

2008-09-03T10:17:13-07:00

Attractive attached male seeking a Cuck Couple, Bi Couple, or Female to have fun with. Looking for kinky individuals who like to experiment and have a great time. Ultimately looking for friends with benefits. I can play during the day as well and am Drug and Disease free. Drop me a line and lets get to know each other.

Daddy looking for a boy/sissy - m4t (campbell) 62yr

2008-09-03T09:53:42-07:00

I am in search of a very young male (21 to 30 years old) so I can teach to service an older male or turn the sissy/boy into a she-female. I am looking for a sissy/boy that lives alone. If you are not serious to make a commitment then don't bother. You have to send a picture of you all dressed up.

Master B